Reading the book “Silence your mind” about meditation and on page 15 it says that you don’t “do” meditation, “you let it happen”. And that’s where another penny dropped for me. I think I’ve been eluding to this on Twitter but not written it so succinctly or as well. If you apply this to OOBE’s, you don’t do OOBE’s, you let them happen. But as with meditation, you still need to set aside time to “let it happen”. Hope that makes sense.
I think I learnt something else but can’t quite put it into words yet. Maybe post some more in the next couple of days.